Going No WhereAre you a man at midlife stuck in soul-sucking work?  I can help you get unstuck and do work you love – work that has meaning and makes you come alive.

Maybe you’re feeling lost or stuck.  Maybe you’re looking at how many years you have left, and saying, “What the hell am I doing with my life?”

Maybe you’re saying, “I want to do work that matters, but…”

“I don’t know what to do” or “I can’t get any traction.”

Some sobering facts:

  • Only 45% of U.S. workers are satisfied with their work.

  • 55% are not engaged with their work.

  • Only 1 in 5 are doing what they’re best at each day.

  • And research shows that most people are least happy when they’re working.

When we hear this, some of us think, “Oh, I guess that’s just how it is. Work sucks. I should just get over it and do my job.” For some of us, our deep fear is that we’ll wake up on our 70th birthday and say, “Oh my God. I’ve wasted my life.”

This is wrong.

This is backwards. We’re not here to work ourselves into the ground, doing what others expect, putting up with soul-sucking drudgery.

What we do for HALF our waking hours should NOT SUCK.  We all deserve better than that.

I vision a world where you (and everyone else) use your highest strengths to make a difference in the world in ways you care about. I want what you do to be a full expression of who you are. And I want you to be having such a good time doing it, that it doesn’t feel like work. I want you to jump out of bed eager to get to work, saying, “I can’t believe I’m getting paid to do this!”

I understand being stuck in soul-sucking work, feeling like you have to sacrifice because you’re the man of the house and you’ve got a family to feed.  I’ve been there, and I’m never going back.  Now I’m putting food on the table and my family has a happier daddy and husband.

I help people do work they love… work that has purpose.  I’m Steve Hingle, Certified Positive Psychology Coach, and an expert at resolving internal conflicts.  I’ve worked with many men at midlife struggling with what to do and how to get there.  My clients say that I’m a great listener, provide incredible perspective and insight, and that I quickly get to the heart of the matter. My left and right brain are balanced, so I’m skilled at being compassionate, strategic, and creative.  I’m awesome at helping people get past internal blocks to doing what they love.  My prices are reasonable.

If you don’t know what kind of work to do that you’d love, you can get very close to figuring this out in one hour with the Free Discover the Work You Love Workbook, plus get access to the Free Discover the Work You Love Coaching Call, held once every month.  Please sign up to get it right now:


Check out the three coaching group options (the Starting the Business You Love Group, the Break All the Rules and Land the Job You Love Group, and the Men’s Midlife Transformation Group).

Contact me for a free one-on-one try-out coaching session.

People who are a good fit for my coaching:

  • Are usually men aged 35 – 55

  • Are introspective and tend to stay on subject, rather than talking about irrelevant details and going off on tangents a lot

  • Are into getting perspective, noticing patterns, and seeing what’s going on behind the scenes

  • Are willing to work on any emotional blocks that might be in the way

  • Want a coaching partner, not someone to tell them what to do

  • Tend to be progressive

  • Usually want to make a difference in the world

 I can help you:

  • Figure out what to do for a living.

  • Come up with a plan for transitioning into a new career.

  • Take serious action on that plan.

  • Get past blocks to doing what you love.

  • Start a new business, if that’s what you want.

  • Find ways to enjoy your current work during the transition.

Besides career coaching, I also help people:

  • Get through midlife transitions

  • Get unstuck or find their way

  • Create a life of balance and authentic happiness

  • Become more purposeful and spiritual in each moment

  • Improve relationships

  • Become more emotionally intelligent

  • Grow their business


Three Virtual Coaching Groups:

  • Starting the Business You Love Group

  • Break All the Rules and Land the Job You Love Group

  • Men’s Midlife Transformation Group

Read more about them here.

Want to see if we’re a good fit for each other, or talk about what’s going on with you?  Call me, Steve Hingle, (608-572-0084) or e-mail me right now.  First session is free when you sign up below.